My dad suggested that I go to the Oak Hill cemetery on the edge of town to find monuments. There are some traditional monuments, such as this statue in honor of the town's soldiers who died during the Spanish-American War:
Or the monuments that tend to say more about the family's status than about the loved one who has passed.
Some monuments give you some insight into the person who is memorialized.
Gravestones pull at me, not just because I am fascinated by the histories of the people whose lives are encapsulated in a birth date, death date and the few descriptive words that fit on the stone, but also because I see in them the grief of the living. Their desire to declare to the world: this person lived, this person made a difference, this person meant something--even if it is with hand-engraved words, like on this stone.
And finally, monuments can remind us that over the centuries and across the continents we all share a common humanity. At the base of this heartbreaking monument, which lists the deaths of five children over the course of just two months in 1884, lies a very modern note. It says: "Sprinkled with a Mother's Love." I imagine that a mother who has experienced her own pain visits this monument to send her support back to the grieving parents and to pray for these five little souls.
To see other monuments around the world, please visit Francesca's Fuoriborgo and click on the links in the comments section.
"Common humanity" is such a nice phrase. The hand carved one is so poignant.
ReplyDeleteyour father's idea to go to the cemetery was good :)
ReplyDeletevery touching walk! thank you and have a nice CV day!
ReplyDeleteI'm also fascinated by old cemeteries...those memorials evoke lots of imaginary stories!
ReplyDeleteHeartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteGood job, Dad! I have to admit that I love walking through cemeteries and creating stories about the lives the "residents" had.
ReplyDeleteWow.
ReplyDeleteGood idea!
ReplyDeleteI always thought that American cemeteries were less sinister than those in France.
What a beautiful (though sad) parade. I love cemetries - it's the one place where you can ponder on beginnings and endings whilst being surrounded by the very subject.
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So cool! Last year I went to this cemetary in Milan. There were so many amazing statues, and what I liked best were the photos attached to the headstones. It made me wonder what their histories were.
ReplyDeletei like it your dad suggests where to shop for monuments... i'd love to wander over this cemetery, it's looking sprightly springlike, like in film scenes...
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